Pat

English

I’m 56, spiritual, and very old fashioned. I’m seeking a domestic discipline relationship with a firm minded man who likes to take the lead. I’m not looking for FWB, one night stands or anything fleeting. I’m looking to work towards a more permanent arrangement. I’m friendly, outgoing, and a nurturer by nature. Love the outdoors and engaging with people/helping others. Have a fondness for Children and animals. I’m very artistic and enjoy attending music venues and community activities. And though I need occasional discipline I’m not particularly kinky. But desire to share companionship, being led in my faith by a partner who shares that, growing, developing and exploring whatever is mutually enjoyable. I seek a gentleman who has patience, integrity, compassion, and a good sense of humor. Who is knowledgeable yet has common sense. Who leads not commands, who instructs not demands, and who can teach me how to be better at making decisions not take those decisions away completely. I desire to fully submit to the right person, to serve and please them not as a slave or sub but as a partner. I’m
Looking for the man who wants to blend who we are into one working couple with mutual goals and dreams. Rome wasn’t built overnight so I know it takes time to build a relationship with trust and respect. Am willing to relocate if necessary. Even to the UK, where I have friends.
Christian men and those who have a military background are a plus. As I’m a veteran too.

Taurus

Heavyset

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Caucasian

Divorced

No

Yes

Eyes

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Dark Brown

Yes

Some College

Part-time

Food / Catering

Waitr Driver (restaurant food delivery)

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Photography, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Theater, Camping, Volunteering, Shopping

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Going to a place we’d mutually enjoy, if a restaurant, his choice is great, even ordering for me is fine. Maybe sharing experiences or talking over dinner, laughing about something funny, a drive to a scenic location and just learning about each other.

Role play, being spanked outdoors, a little more power exchange than just domestic discipline

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

Christian

Once A Week

Very Conservative

To be a good Christian and (w/partner) be an asset and a joy to my partner and do my part in the household.

Campy, Clever, Friendly, Obscure, Slapstick

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Re-runs

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Thriller

Country, Rock, Classical, Gospel, Folk

News, Classic, Fiction, History, Religious, I'm An Author, Romance, Erotica

Being with someone I enjoy doing something we both enjoy, or experiencing something new, being with friends or volunteering for a cause I support (church/veterans/children)

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

A man who is dominant and likes to be in charge, who is knowledgeable, using common sense/is street smart. Who likes helping others, is genuine, sincere, can get along with anyone, is thoughtful and intuitive. Carries on a good conversation and has a good vocabulary. Is patient when emotions overtake me or when there’s a problem. Not afraid to discipline when needed, for my own good, with forgiveness and aftercare. A good teacher/ leader. Willing to explore new things and is open minded. Firm but fair and strong in his faith. Leading me in mine.

Friend, Date, Other, Domination