Justin

English, French, Italian

I'm a recent widower after a long, happy marriage. We shared everything - values, aesthetics and pleasures - especially sex.
Sex included spanking. I loved gently spanking her pretty little round bottom over my lap and watching her vulva swell and get moist. After spanking her, I loved to kiss her bottom and cxxt better, before entering her doggy-style.
If I was a bad boy,she'd give me a serious caning - telling me to bare my bottom and bend over for six or more strokes with her swishy rattan cane. She enjoyed watching my cock get harder with every painful stroke.

But now she's gone - another victim of The Big C.
I may never entirely get over my loss - but as she said, shortly before she died in my arms, I must move forward.
Sex is easy enough to get, but that alone is not for me. I desperately need to meet a mature woman - any age between 40 and 75 - with whom I can forge an affectionate and hopefully permanent relationship.
What have I got to offer - apart from a reasonably substantial circumcised penis?
(1) I'm bright and creative. I earn my living as a writer.
(2) I'm interested in almost everything - but especially arts, music, countryside and wildlife. (I'm also an occasional petrolhead - in fact I've written a book about it.)
(3) I love oral sex. I'll pleasure you with my tongue and kiss EVERY inch of your lovely body.
(4) If you have natural pubic hair, so much the better - though not essential.
(5) I love peace and quiet - but also the Rolling Stones, who apart from being a great rock band, kick ageism (one of my pet hates) well and truly into touch.
(6) I live in a gorgeous village on Cranborne Chase/Chalke Valley.
(7) Friends say that I'm a nice person - a caring and empathetic one.
(8) I 'm a committed feminist; I can't stand misogyny and stupid male posturing.
(9) I'm romantic.
(10) I'm very open-minded. I don't just mean that in the sexual sense.
(11) I don't give a toss about what's 'trendy' or 'on trend' or anything else that the majority is persuaded to follow.
(12) I'm not that bothered about party political infighting - but I want to see fair play...and I'm appalled by Putin's invasion of Ukraine.
(13) And though it's by no means essential, if you're into spanking, I'm your man.
I'm sure there's lots more - but life's too short - and anyway, the right woman will be able to judge for herself.

Taurus

Average

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Caucasian

Widowed

Yes - Not At Home

No

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Grey

No pets

No

University Degree

Self-employed

Writer

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Outcast

Reserved, Observant, Friendly

Reading, Theater, Cars

Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Meeting in a pleasant neutral location e.g. pub garden, bar, hotel lounge, Yellow Book Garden. You may have another suggestion.

Something I haven't tried already.

Friendly, Cool, Obscure

Atheist

Never

I Don't Like Politics

As a recently widowed man, after a very happy marriage, I want to meet someone with whom I can have a warm and vibrant relationship: lots of sex. Plenty of erotic spanking - and when I deserve it,she will administer punishment caning.
My ideal partner will also share my pleasures and introduce me to new ones.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Sadistic

I Don't Like Tv

Romance, Drama, Adult

Country, Rock, Classical, Blues, Folk

Biography, Classic, Fiction, Health, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Poetry, Satire, I'm An Author, Erotica

Sex, Swimming in the sea, Studland Nudist Beach, The Countryside, Good Conversation, Dining or Drinking with friends, watching an erotic movie with a sexual partner, Spanking as foreplay...and lots lots more

Spontaneity, Oddities, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What do you mean by what do I look for? I don't look for anything. But if I meet a woman I find attractive - and who finds me attractive -then I know right away. And so does she.
By the way - I find the relationship tick-boxes below incredibly naff.
Of course I want a friend. Of course I want to fuck. Of course I love oral sex. Who doesn't? So I've just ticked Other; take that whichever way you like.

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