Tracy

I'm married to a good man who is a hopeless vanilla. I also am a mother to two young children. I am a business owner and have a lot of responsibilities. I believe the perception that people have of me is outspoken, independent and social, just to name a few. I make the hard decisions and ask the hard questions when no one else can. I do what I want, say what I want and buy what I want. I am an assertive, fun, prideful, irrational, sensitive and loving woman who is very open but very specific to her needs as well.

I was one of those people who looked up the word "spanking" anytime I saw a dictionary. I couldn't even say the word out loud without feeling a chill down my spine. Spanking stories and spanking scenes had me laser focused and confusingly paranoid. I can probably name every tv show from the 80’s that had a hint of otk. I knew exactly where to find the books in the library where the word was even mentioned. Ann Rice's claim to fame was through Sleeping Beauty, while the rest of the world knew her from interviewing vampires (You can imagine how disappointed I was when the movie came out, just to discover that there no vampire spankings). A lifestyle that consists of sexual/fun/discipline spankings always appealed to me. One where I can maintain the role of a strong independent woman outside but behind closed doors, the possibility of being put over a mans knee is real. To be frank, discipline is where it’s at for me. Not bondage, not rope, just discipline spankings.

I tend to only engage with people that have a hint of their appearance in their profile.

Not sure what i'm seeking... besides a man that understands this kink that I have kept a secret my whole life. Friendship, good conversation is always a good start. Philosophy, psychobabble, dissecting movies and songs to seek the root of inspiration, analyzing just about anything are my favorite category of discussion. Intelligence, wit and a kind heart are charging. Educated is preferred since I do have a hard time with people who say "aks" instead of "ask". Play is the end goal but since I am just starting to find the courage to explore, patience would be a virtue. This man must understand that emotions MAY get involved but rational enough to know that families cannot be broken up... because I do love my family and believe that I have something special. I'm on this site in hopes of possibly connecting with a man that understands everything I have written here.

No torture, cuts, blood, mouth soaping, senseless humiliation, ear pulling, nipple torture, caging or gagging. Oh, and I don’t count spanks. So if you ever ask me to count, game over. Looking for a healthy connection with a healthy mind. And I only play with people that I know and not just from a few emails exchanges. A handful of phone conversations under our belt would make things more comfortable. Stranger Spanking just isn’t my thing.

Aries

Curvy

5' 4 (1.63 m)

Asian